Danuše Brůhová

* 1950

  • "We had it a bit harder. There's a full age at twenty-one, like in a lot of other states. It's just us at eighteen, but the Germans are twenty-one. Which I wasn't. I was 19. So I was underage, I needed someone to be around who was. But my husband wasn't even of full age at the time. So we couldn't get married, we had a problem with our own place, and we were foreigners. We needed at least one of us to be of legal age. We lived with my husband's parents. We both had jobs, not corresponding to our studies, but we took it that way. That's what people who emigrate have to accept, that they won't be doing what they studied, at least to begin with. My husband worked in a Morris car factory. He was in charge of some things there. I was packing cosmetics in the factory."

  • "Thousands and thousands of people have left the republic, in droves. Even my husband's parents and his brother did it. They left him behind, they wanted him to finish his high school diploma, we were in our final year at the time and they wanted him to finish his high school diploma. We graduated and in July 1969 we went to Germany to join them. My parents took it very hard, and I came back in September. My husband said he was going to stay there for my parents, but then he said he couldn't be without me, so he came back in December. I remember to this day - on the sixth of December 1969 he came back. They did unbelievable, terrible things to us. They wouldn't let us do anything. My husband couldn't get a job. First he couldn't do what he had studied, then they allowed it. He saw his parents for the first time... In 1969 for the last time and then in 1981."

  • "He drove into the stupidest street for him, he didn't know that. He got there eventually, managed to turn around and went back. One, two, three pulled in, turned off their engines and stopped. Slowly they lifted the hatches and climbed out. We knew Russian, of course, it was compulsory to learn it, really intensively, they made sure of that. Even as children we knew Russian. So the adults, especially the Russian teachers, would go up to them and ask why they did it. And they said, "No, there's a counter-revolution here, people are being murdered here." And we said that's not true. We were living a normal life, and suddenly you come here and tell us that we wanted nothing else but for you to come."

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Return from emigration? Hell, we’ve been through a lot of hardship

Danuše Brůhová in her graduation photo, 1969
Danuše Brůhová in her graduation photo, 1969
photo: Archive of the witness

Danuše Brůhová, née Dubská, was born on 29 November 1950 in the South Bohemian town of Prachatice. Her father Jaroslav Dubský worked in construction, her mother Anna Dubská, née Kulhová, was a trained seamstress, but worked all her life in the post office. Danuše Brůhová grew up in Vodňany, where she attended primary school. She then studied at the grammar school in Strakonice and later at the pedagogical school in Prachatice. She lived through the invasion of the Warsaw Pact troops a year before her graduation. After graduation she emigrated to the Federal Republic of Germany with her future husband Petr Brůha. Danuše Brůhová spent three months in West Germany, her husband half a year. She worked as a factory worker. For family reasons, however, they decided to return. Because of their return from emigration, they experienced frequent hardships from the regime. Since her return to Czechoslovakia, she has worked with her children. First at the kindergarten and then at the primary school in Lázně Kynžvart. She had two children, daughter Daniela (1972) and son Marek (1976). She spent the Velvet Revolution in Spain. In 2023, Danuše Brůhová lived in Kladská near Mariánské Lázně.