Božena Kostihová

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  • "I was sitting at U Fleku, the insurance company was doing a tour there, and our little boy, who was studying at the philosophy faculty, forgot something at home. And I called him and told him I'd be at Fleck's and to come get it. He came around 5 p.m., carrying a banner with the slogan Enough already! He told me to go with him, that they were planning a march to Wenceslas Square, that there were about fifty thousand of them. I warned him not to go, that something would happen. He replied that there were 50,000 of them, that nothing could happen. I had another beer, and there was playing and singing on the stage. It was about nine o'clock in the evening, the door opened and our boy was among them. I should point out that he was not a hero or a pussy, he was a normal boy, he was nineteen, he was a student. He sat down next to me, and I offered him to drink a beer from me. But he reached over and missed the ear of the beer glass with his hand. It was the first time I'd seen him like that. He said he had come to see that he was all right, and added that there had been a massacre on National Avenue. There was playing, singing. After a while his friend came there, she was from the economics school, her classmates were giving flowers to the policemen behind the shield. She sat down and kept saying how badly they were beaten. I didn't get anything else out of her."

  • "Around Christmas, Radim had already been transferred to the remand centre in Litoměřice, and suddenly a letter arrived for my son. He and the parish priest were friends. The letter was sent from Most and was written in pencil. At that time, Major Fiedler came to my house. He came to get his typewriter, which they had not taken away at that time. I asked him if Radim had been in Most, because I had received a letter from Most. He told me that he had sent it himself, that Radim had written it already in the prison in Litoměřice, and that he had asked if he could send it. So he took it to his place and dropped it in the mailbox in Most. He also smuggled cigarettes to Radim's prison, and I sent him a package from home. But I think if I had given him twenty crowns, he would have bought them. Major Fiedler wasn't such a bastard. Then I found out he had a drinking problem."

  • "So we drove behind the cemetery, I took the stuff and put it in Radim's car. We got in and, hello, there were policemen there. They checked Radim and asked him why one stamp on his driver's license was brown and not black. Radim replied that they probably just had a brown pad. The policeman told him that we would go with them, that they had to check it out. So we went to the police. Radim was taken away. And they took me home, about four of them. They were standing outside the apartment and I asked why they were coming to us, that I wanted to see some paper - and they pulled out a search warrant. I saw the name of the bookbinder, that it was because of her, the signature of the prosecutor and the stamp, I knew that should be there. So I told them to come in. That day my kids were sick, they were home in bed. I told them to go to their room, and prepared for coffee. I had the biggest fear of my life. I didn't know what was going to happen, the kids were here, it was a crazy fear. Suddenly I thought, I'm not going to make them coffee. So I turned off the water. Because Radim sometimes had money at our house, ten thousand, for example, I just told my daughter that there was an envelope with money in the first drawer in the living room and to take it to her. So she took it, and she carried the envelope behind her trousers all day. They'd roll up their gloves and go for the mugs, the books, occasionally grab something. They picked up, for instance, Jack London's book, The White Fang, and next to that was Arthur London's Confessions, and they left that there because they thought it was the other London."

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She copied the parish priest’s samizdat and was arrested by State Security. She didn’t think about the danger

Božena Kostihová, Ústí nad Labem, June 2023
Božena Kostihová, Ústí nad Labem, June 2023
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Božena Kostihová, maiden name Mayerová, was born in Prague but lived in Roudnice nad Labem. In 1945, her father Josef Mayer became the national administrator of the Meva company in Brandov, Most, where the family moved. Two years later the family moved again, this time to Jistebnice near Tábor, where the father worked at the Meva company. In the autumn of 1949, the father was arrested by the police and sentenced to three years in prison for espionage. He worked in the uranium mines in Jáchymov. The witness graduated from the gymnasium in Most and joined the Mining Construction Most as a typist and later as a draughtswoman. In 1961 she went on a company holiday to Moscow, where she visited the mausoleum where the embalmed bodies of Vladimir Ilyich Lenin and Josef Vissarionovich Stalin lay. In 1966 Božena Mayerová married Stanislav Kostiha, and in the following years they had a daughter Zuzana and a son Stanislav. During the baptism of her son in 1970, she met the priest Radim Hložánek. From 1972 she copied religious texts and songs for him. Both the witness and the priest were arrested by State Security in the autumn of 1981. After interrogation, Božena Kostihová was released and her home was searched. Parish priest Hložánek was sentenced to 20 months. The witness was investigated by State Security, yet she tried to support the clergyman and corresponded with him while serving her sentence. They became friends. After Hložanek’s release, she did not continue copying the text. She also experienced humane treatment by State Security officer. In 1984, she left school to work in an insurance company. On 17 November 1989 she was in Prague, her son took part in a demonstration on Národní třída. Since then, her children have been involved in post-Soviet events. She did not feel the need to be active even within the Civic Forum. In 1992 she started working in a car rental company. She retired in 1997, and subsequently she and her husband travelled all over the world. In 2023, she lived in Most. The story of the witness could be recorded thanks to the support of the Statutory City of Most.