Marie Kroupová

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  • Granddaughter: "What was your biggest fear overall?" - "It was that Dan would get arrested. When Dan went somewhere, I was always so concerned about him coming back. When he went to the Havels, you never knew if he was going to come back, if they were going to raid the place or not. When he went to those seminars and all kinds of lectures, I never knew if he would come back. I was so worried about the children." Teacher: "Did they threaten you in any way, like to take your children away?" - "They always threatened my husband during all the interrogations. It was like, 'Mr. Kroupa, if you don't know, your wife is sitting next door, and we took your children to orphanages.'" - Teacher: "They lied to him like that?" - Granddaughter: "What were the house seminars about?" - "The colleges were quite good in a certain way, but they didn't actually teach what they were supposed to. So, the people who were interested in things, mostly philosophers and historians or the humanities, set up house seminars because you can teach those things by telling people and reading. We even ran two of those, two days a week. Every week. We used to really pick the students who would come to us really carefully; it was always on someone's recommendation. They were also largely dissidents' children, teenagers. Or [those] who didn't get into school. Most dissident kids didn't get into college afterwards. Janek, for example, was actually one of the last ones who didn't get into high school. Janek took exams for grammar school and didn't get in. I mean, he passed; we got a paper saying he was admitted, his exams were good and he was in, but a week later we got a letter saying that unfortunately there had been a mistake and he was not admitted. I knew the headmaster; he was a Roman Catholic and a good man. He called us and said, 'Look, I can't do anything, I was simply ordered not to admit Janek,' and gave me all the papers. Then I called all sorts of schools and finally we got Janek into a chemistry school. Getting into technical high schools was actually a little bit easier, so Janek went to a chemical school for the first year, and he was utterly desperate and unhappy there. Luckily, a year later the revolution came and Janek went back to the grammar school."

  • "They'd come, I'd say my husband wasn't home; he was at work; and then children and I took off. I ran to a telephone booth, called my husband at the waterworks where he worked as a machinist at the time, and said they had come for him and were waiting for him. He said, 'Okay, I'll drive home and park in the backyard.' The house was facing the street like this, and it was long, with several entrances. It was a modern brick apartment building, built into a gap. There was this huge gate where you drove into the back yard, and behind the house were the garages. Our entrance to the yard was all the way on the other side of the long block, away our third floor apartment. My husband said, 'I'll be there in a half an hour.' So I said, 'Okay.' When he pulled into the yard, I sent Janek to go see if dad had arrived yet. We were looking from the balcony, waiting for him. As soon as I saw Dan with his little Fiat had arrived in the yard, one by one the kids went out with backpacks with their stuff, and Dan put them all in the little car. I was the last one to go with little Martin. We got in the car and just drove away. We saw the policemen sitting there in the car, waiting for Dan, and we drove merrily to Cholín. The kids were beside themselves with happiness."

  • "I was actually worried about my children all the time. The whole time after the Charter. The worst... nothing was as terrible as that quiet fear that always lingers on. For Dan, for the kids, because anything could happen anytime. It wasn't just us. It was everybody. Only people who thought they weren't going to show what was on their mind and were protecting themselves just marching along with the crowd - but this could happen to them at any time. Whoever fell from grace, they could always dig up something." - Teacher: "Were you ever in the situation where you had to be alone with the kids?" - "I wasn't, I didn't sign the Charter and Dan never got locked up, but there were two really nasty situations. One was when... they'd always come at five in the morning or so when they were arresting. Terrible kicking and pounding on the door. We both got out, and that was very funny, I must say. They came with two cars, parked outside the house, for one guy. One cop was downstairs, two were in the mezzanine, and three were banging on our door. When I opened the door, they started yelling at me to get my husband immediately... they wanted him to come with them. I said, 'Why?' and they said we'd find out. I tried to slam the door and one put his foot in the door. Terrible noise in the house, at five in the morning. In the end, I was so furious... see, I was never really scared at that point. I got really angry, like very angry. There were my little kids, and I was so angry. Then Dan came out, got his toothbrush, his shorts, his socks and left."

  • "I had a little baby and Martin Palouš came to our place with the Charter one evening. Dad signed it but we said I wouldn't sign anything. I had three children already. Janek was two and a half, Mikuláš was one and a half, and Martin was a newborn." - Teacher: "What do you think would have happened if you signed? What were you afraid of?" - "Well, not only would they have harassed me. We just said, one of us has to be with the kids. With three kids, you wouldn't take the risk. Not me, I couldn't do it and I've never been particularly brave. Dad was." - Granddaughter: "Did you agree when grandpa signed the Charter?" - "Sure I did. He would never have done that if I hadn't wanted him to." - Teacher: "Even though you suspected what would follow? Did you have any idea what would happen after?" - "Yes, a little bit, but not for the most part. The kind of hype they made about it at the beginning was basically a bit self-inflicted. The fact that the Charter got such publicity and such a frenzy around it. The Anti-Charter was signed, they forced many people to do it who had never seen it, never read it in their lives, yet they signed a paper they knew nothing about. They weren't stupid, they were smart people. Of course, they found it unnatural, stupid." - Teacher: "Do you blame them for signing the Anti-Charter? Or do you think it's possible some signed it just because they had to for some reason?" - "I think they had to. I felt more ashamed of the people who said afterwards that it wasn't really their fault, that they didn't know what they were signing. I'm sure they knew." - Teacher: "Some people said they thought they were signing an attendance sheet or what." - "I don't think that's true. I don't think it's possible; they must have known."

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That quiet fear that’s always with you

Witness's mother Hana Prošková with little Marie
Witness's mother Hana Prošková with little Marie
photo: Marie Kroupová

Marie Kroupová, née Prošková, was born in Prague on 13 October 1950. She has two sisters, Magdalena and Kateřina. Her mother Hana Prošková was a detective book writer and her father left the family. She graduated from university with a degree in chemistry. She took house seminars with professor Růžena Vacková. She met her husband Daniel Kroupa at the seminars. They have five sons and one daughter. Daniel Kroupa signed Charter 77 in January 1977 and the family found themselves in the crosshairs of the State Security Service (StB). Marie Kroupová has devoted her life to taking care of her large family and works at the Music and Dance Faculty of the Academy of Performing Arts in Prague today (2020).