Anežka Stehlíková

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  • "We had our roots there, that was aunt Jula, my mother's sister. We didn't really meet much as a family. She stayed in Romania and her husband died tragically in a terrible way in the forest. I don't even want to remember that. They had one son, and he died. When my uncle died, my aunt lived with a Slovak and helped him raise his children, they had many children. She actually came here, but we never went to see her there. We didn't go there. The children from the other family live there, but we don't write or see each other at all. I've been to Romania once on holiday, just once with my daughter. My husband didn't want to go. I wanted to go, but it didn't work out. I was so sorry it didn't work out. We stayed by the Black Sea and took one sightseeing trip to the capital, but that was in a completely opposite direction. I couldn't talk anybody into going there. I never saw my home region at all."

  • "Maruška got married, and Anička got married about two years later. It was a proper Slovak wedding that took three days, and there were - I don't know exactly but we couldn't fit in the big house - 60, 80 people. Maruška married her husband from this village. The first day, it started with the groom going to ask the parents for the bride. The second day was the permission and the bachelor party. The third day was the actual wedding. My mom came from twelve children, my dad came from four, and so all the relatives including cousins and godparents, our (parents') godparents and our godparents attended. Of course, I didn't know all of them because I was the youngest. All I remember is my sister kneeling down and begging my parents for forgiveness for everything. That was the farewell to her parents; so sad, we were all crying. During the actual wedding was, she was like the Virgin Mary, all dressed up beautifully, and I felt she'd get stolen from us. I don't know where that carme from. I feared I'd never see her again, she'd just be gone. I sat there in the corner and I cried."

  • "The areas they needed to resettle were determined on the train. We were actually dropped off in Cheb. They brought us to Cheb in June. Of course, some of the people from that first batch were already there and they said that the winters there were bitter. My mother said that she had had more than her fair share of the winter and didn't want any more. She wanted to go to Moravia. My dad's parents were there; they got to Moravia. The way it was meant to be, my parents ended up in Zahrádky. I don't know exactly, and they never told us if they had no say in it or that they just didn't get their wish; they went to Zahrádky. They put us in one house and there were 80 people crammed into it. We lived there for a month before the district decided how the apartments would be allocated. The community of Zahrádky let us choose here in Borek."

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Our parents passed on the faith

Anežka Stehlíková in 1995
Anežka Stehlíková in 1995
photo: Witness's archive

Anežka Stehlíková, née Kretová, was born on 1 January 1947 into a Romanian Slovak family in the village of Varzari in the north-west of the country near the border with Hungary. Her ancestors likely came to the region in the late 19th century; her grandparents on both sides were already born in Romania and settled in the Metaliferi Mountains area. Men worked mostly in the forest while women raised numerous offspring and took care of farm animals. They were traditionally deeply religious, firmly rooted in the Roman Catholic Church. Four daughters were born to the Krets in Romania. Older children went to a Hungarian school while Slovak was spoken at home. During World War II, father Štefan Kret had to enlist in the Hungarian army alongside German troops, and was imprisoned in the Siberia for a year after the war. In June 1949, the family emigrated to Czechoslovakia and settled in Borek - Zahrádky near Česká Lípa in the borderland. Two more daughters were born and the family became integrated in their new environment, linguistically and culturally. Anežka graduated from a medical high school in Ústí nad Labem and worked in North Bohemian hospitals, spending most of her career in the laboratory of the hospital in Česká Lípa. She married outside her Romanian-Slovak community. She has not yet visited the place where she was born and lived as a child in Romania. We were able to record her story thanks to the support of the village of Zahrádky near Česká Lípa.